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If you’re wondering how to keep a man that you like interested in you, you’ll love this Quick Tip!

In love, little things make a big difference. In the day-to-day of your relationship(s), it can feel overwhelming to address all the problems or create all your dreams at once. That's why we love to b...

If you’re struggling to find and create a loving relationship…

Or you’re feeling lost, unsure, or bored in the relationship you’re in now, today’s MarsVenus Quick Tip is for you.

In love, little things make a big difference. In the day-to-day of your relationship(s), it can feel overwhelming to ad...

If you want to be the best possible version of yourself for your relationships, today’s MarsVenus Quick Tip is for you.

In love, little things make a big difference. In the day to day of your relationship(s), it can feel overwhelming to address all the problems or create all your dreams at once. Th...

If you’re a single woman who’s dating over 50, and the men you meet are not bringing enough romance to your dates, this is a post that can help.

The fact is that we all get a little rigid as we age, and that’s natural.

But there is also a biological and psychological explanation that can shed some...

When it comes to goal setting for a New Year, birthday, or other big milestones, it’s fun to dream big and get clear on our plans moving forward.

The problem I find is that there's a lot of advice out there on setting goals that can be very confusing and even ineffective.

So this is a different ta...

Are you in a no label relationship? You know, having fun, getting close, keeping it casual and cool without “putting a label on it?”

It’s easy and undemanding until you run into a problem.

What if they don’t call you back? What if they start hanging out with someone else? What if they’re having se...

Are you wondering how to deal with a jealous boyfriend?

You’re in the right place!

It’s easy to second guess yourself and think, “Is it me? Am I doing something wrong? Am I causing his reactions?”

And I want to stop you right there. This is not your fault.

In this post, I’m going to introduce yo...

So many men and women ask me how to get out of the friend zone.

You’re in a relationship but it’s not the kind of relationship you really want. You want them to see you as a romantic partner. You want them to cross that huge divide called “just friends” and make out with you — maybe even fall in lo...

If you’re a single woman feeling tired of dating because there’s only so many “failed relationships” you can take before you throw in the towel, this post is for you.

Dating can take a lot of out of you, especially with all the other things in your life that need attention: your career, friendships...

Are you wondering how to get a girl out of your league? Because the ones you fall for are always are, right?

You dig down deep for courage, you make your move (usually some kind of text, email, dating, or social media app) and then…

Crickets. Or worse, she turns you down directly. Ouch.

It’s enou...

All kinds of people come to my seminars and talks around the world, motivated by one simple thing:

They all want more in relationships, but “more” typically means different things to a woman than a man.

When I ask a woman if she wants more in her relationship, she will usually light up and say “YE...

It’s hard finding Mr. Right.

You hear messages like, “Don’t settle for less,” and suddenly, you feel empowered to have high standards for a partner.

But then you hear messages like, “Don’t wait for Mr. Perfect; there’s no such thing,” and it’s easy to turn on those beautiful standards and accuse y...

Those quiet moments when you get really honest with yourself and you realize…he’s losing interest.

Terrifying!!! I’ve been there. Everything is great until he pulls away from cuddling, he doesn’t say sweet things anymore, your sex life is suffering, and you’re afraid this might be the beginning of ...

You see her across the room. Your heart starts beating faster, your mouth gets a little dry, and then you...do nothing.

Why is it so difficult to talk to a woman you find attractive?

If you are a man who gets cold feet when trying to strike up a conversation, this post is for you!

In this video, ...

I like you, therefore, I want to BE with you. Sounds simple, right?

And yet, it’s not.

Women want to be pursued, but we lose attraction when a man is “clingy.” When does pursuing a woman morph into chasing her away? When does the knight-in-shining-armor become that creepy guy who can’t take a hint...

Have you ever felt like dating was more difficult than it should be or that you find yourself constantly unfulfilled in the relationships you have?

You may have an adult form of ADHD [Attention Deficit Hyperactive Disorder]. This is nothing to be ashamed of. In fact, it’s a product of our lifestyle...

Are you single and looking for your soul mate? Maybe you’re beginning to feel like there’s no one out there for you.

Not true!

Although wading through the dating pool to find the one can be daunting, there are things you can do to make yourself more successful in doing so.

In this post, I’m going...

I get asked a lot for first date tips for guys. With so much misinformation out there and conflicting ideas about “what women want,” no wonder a guy might feel a little lost before a first date.

You may not know her yet or you may know her but not in *this* kind of context. What you do know is that...

Everything was going great! You had sex and now? He’s acting distant, weird, and pulling away from the intimacy you had.

It can make you feel really insecure when this happens. “Does he like me? Does he not like me? Is he interested? Are we together? Will I ever see him again? Did I do something...

"Great relationships are founded in friendship.” Yup. We’ve heard that before.

But what they fail to explain is how you’re supposed to elegantly cross over from one to the other!

It can be especially stressful for women because we’ve been told that making the first move is:

• “too aggressive”
• “n
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One minute it’s all lovey-dovey and the next you’re demoted to being “just a friend.”

What happened?!

Believe it or not, this is more common than you think and it’s not at all the final word on the matter. There is hope for reconciliation and a return to love!

In this post, I’ll show you exactly ...

Are you wondering if you’re mistaking "sex" for "genuine feelings"? And maybe even feeling bad about your choices...

You’re in the right spot!

Sex should feel good. If it’s causing heartache, stress, confusion, or shame, it’s time to try a new approach.

In this post, I’ll share some key differenc...

You took the next step in intimacy and commitment and now he’s disappeared, cooled off, or acting totally weird!

Why do men run away right when it gets good? And can you trust him after this?

Great questions. The good news is: I have answers and a path to peace of mind.

In this post, I’ll diagnos...

It’s like as soon as you leave school, there’s no easy way to find a girlfriend!

Meeting women can be a challenge and creating a connection that leads to a relationship can feel nearly impossible.

But there is a way! There is a way to meet women, approach them, and follow through so that she’s int...