Get the love you want in 6 weeks with the You-We-Me-Time ™ system.

Because inspiring him to step it up starts with you feeling your best.
*from MarsVenus’ Lauren Gray, relationship expert, author, and coach*


You want MORE from your relationship(s).

More affection, time, romance, support, communication, all of it!

And you’ve tried everything to get it, right? Giving more, complimenting him, boosting him up, sexy outfits, remembering his favorite things, flirty texts, showing him what a great catch you are, prioritizing him, listening to him, asking him questions, modeling the kind of love you want to receive and MORE!

I’m exhausted just thinking about the way I used to approach relationships!

Well, what if I told you that you could have ALL the love you want, and it starts with you doing less?

It starts with you shifting where you put your energy and effort so that you get more out than you put in, rather than the other way around. That’s the secret.

Shift your lens from him and his needs to YOU and YOUR needs.

This sounds counterintuitive, I get it. But here’s a peak into why it works:

A man is most motivated by success.

When a man sees a genuinely happy woman, he thinks “Hey! I could be the guy to make her happier!” and he’s motivated to try.

But when you’ve been working so hard at your relationship(s) and you still don’t get the love you want then you’re not going to be genuinely happy; you’re going to feel disappointed, insecure, unsatisfied or unfulfilled.

When this happens, he loses his motivation to try. And that is why

The relationship you’re dreaming of?
Starts with YOU feeling your best.

Hi, I’m Lauren Gray, relationship teacher, author, and coach, and I know exactly what you’re going through.

After years of learning from my dad John Gray (the #1 bestselling author of Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus), studying the best university research on hormones and gender differences, working with women all over the world, and navigating my own 10 year long relationship, I developed a unique (and sustainable) system for women to boost their feel-good hormones, and get everything they want and need in their relationship(s).

You-We-Me Time™ is a tried-and-true system that’s based on biological science and classic MarsVenus principles. It will help you become the master of your own well-being: managing your to-do list (You-Time), your self-care (Me-Time), and your relationship (We-Time) so YOU finally come out on top. (Doesn’t that sound nice?!)

Whether you tend to be what I call a “Venus in Blue,” and YOU…

  • Are used to marching to the tune of your own drummer.
  • Prefer to do things on your own and hate asking for help. #missindependent
  • Own that you’re a Type A personality, but maybe scare some men away while you’re at it…

Or you’re what I call a “Venus in Pink,” and YOU…

  • Hate spending time without your guy. #togetherforever
  • Don’t really enjoy indulging in alone time.
  • Find yourself rattled when your guy wants time without you…

We’ve got you covered with You-We-Me Time™ , because it’s designed to help you feel good in a relationship no matter which way you sway! And I’ll be there walking you through the system, each step of the way, with 6 weeks of email guidance, motivation, and encouragement!




is time when you are meeting other people’s needs (at work or at home)


is time when you are experiencing intimacy and reciprocity with your partner.


is time when you are meeting your own needs and no one else’s.

This system was designed to ensure that you create the right balance, get what you need from each, and feel good– both emotionally and hormonally.

If you’re wondering how you can start implementing this system STAT, you’re in luck. I’m here to teach you everything you need to know to feel good and thrive in your relationship(s) – while getting all of the “ME” time you want (and need – because trust me, you NEED it!).

And your man? He won’t know what hit him…and he’s totally gonna LOVE IT!

You know what happens when you use the You-We-Me Time™ System?



  • Your hormones strike the right balance for you to feel good in the most necessary ways! Think *estrogen, progesterone, oxytocin,* yummy female hormones that lower your stress levels, stop looping thoughts, and inspire greater polarity and passion in your relationships!
  • You’re able to explain what you need in a way that makes sense to your man and doesn’t get misunderstood as “needy” or “demanding,” or like you’re blaming him. You’ve cracked the code to get him to really hear you!
  • You feel fulfilled and are able to give more of YOU to your relationship(s), but in the right balance so you’re never depleting yourself by doing so. You know where to put your energy and you’re confident you’ll get what you want!
  • You do what you like and your man picks up the slack where you leave it; putting in the effort where you aren’t. Believe it or not, men will respond to you in a brand new way and you don’t have to work so hard at making your relationship(s) “work.”
  • You get the support you truly need to open your heart and receive the love you were always meant to have. This means plenty of affection, quality time, romantic dates, open communication, and YES, even help around the house!


a 6-week-long online course that will make you the happiest girlfriend/wife/partner possible using the magic (read: science) of the You-We-Me Time™ System.

This course will teach you a proven system to enhance your HAPPY so your man can step into his role and make you even HAPPIER. True (love) story.


"This course is an answered prayer!"

Before this program I thought that the issues I was having with my significant other were unfixable and that maybe we were not meant to spend our life together. Now, I know that we are meant to be together and that with practice and my new Me-Time tools, we can be a TEAM again!

Lauren Gray made an amazing course! I love that you can do it at your own pace, I love the videos and worksheets, I love that you easily get to put your learning into action! I love that Lauren made me laugh, cry and want to hug her through the screen after each video. This course is for every woman out there! I love that I can come back anytime to this course and refresh my knowledge on [You-We-]Me-Time.

After this program, you will not only have the tools to have a successful relationship, you will have the tools to be the BEST version of YOU.

I want to thank Lauren for a Life-Time of Knowledge that will always be in my everyday living. This course will always stay close to my heart. It was everything I was needing in my life. If you are truly looking for help and wanting to make a positive change in your life, this course is an answered prayer.

Shanda Obridgewitch
Nurse, Newly-wed since the program!

"If you’re single and you’re looking for complete clarity on how to be in a fulfilling relationship, how to take charge of your happiness without depending on a man, sign up!"

“I have been diligently looking for science based relationship advice for two years to show me how to be more “laid back” in a relationship but advice out there is just too general! I’m so happy I joined this course.

Before this program I thought “I am a crazy, needy, and insecure woman.” Now I know that my different phases of hormones influence my experience, therefore, I understand how to choose activities, nutrients, and exercises to help me become my emotionally best self!

I used to approach relationships with disempowering beliefs and expectations about myself, relationship, and the guy but this course helped me to create my own happiness with or without a guy.

One of the biggest shifts I’ve seen is that I have a more balanced view about my romantic life therefore, I can make more rational/conscious choices when it comes to choosing the right life partner; I am no longer hijacked by my emotions.

This course is easy to understand but so so powerful. I’ve worked with other dating coaches before and I have felt disempowered and discouraged by the experience; working with Lauren in this program is so empowering! I love myself more, I feel more confident with men and I am no longer afraid of being single.

If you’re single and you’re looking for complete clarity on how to be in a fulfilling relationship, how to take charge of your happiness without depending on a man, sign up! This course Lauren created is beyond helpful.

Jihane Mochamad
[VENUS IN PINK] engaged employee, busy mom

"My partner is now ready to get married, the me-time activities have done miracles!!!"

“I’ve been a student of personal development, spirituality, and relationships for years and this program allowed me to see the world in a completely new way.

Before this program, I thought that men and women needed to sacrifice a bit of themselves to make their relationship work. I used to think "Men are all the same. I've tried everything!" Now I know I can transform my relationship and GUIDE my partner to meet my needs. I feel empowered as I understand my partner and myself better and use these tools to get the support I need. Lauren opened my eyes!

I was surprised by how fast my stress levels decreased thanks to these small shifts in perspective! I was also surprised by my partner's positive reaction when I applied some simple principles right in the beginning. Using my new tools, he has done an outstanding job at meeting my needs for more communication, more intimacy, more, more everything. And after four years, my partner is now ready to get married (the me-time activities have done miracles!!!)

“Don’t waste any more time fighting, being frustrated or losing good relationships to simple misunderstandings…Sign up for this program today!”

Claire Montazeaud
[VENUS IN BLUE] Freelance translator, seaman’s girlfriend (Newly-wed since the program!)

"He initiates romance with me and I feel so loved and understood."

“At first I wasn’t sure this was the solution to my relationship problems. I thought, “How could an online program be the most efficient way to fix this?” I was so surprised by my results. My life has changed since following Lauren’s program.

When I signed up for this class, I wasn’t in good shape; I was depressed and sure that my life was falling apart. In my relationship I felt alone and misunderstood. I thought I could improve my relationship by myself and that I just had to try harder. When I began this course my relationship was almost dead.

Since the program, all this has changed. Before I thought that the problems came from my boyfriend (he didn’t make enough efforts, he didn’t understand me)…Now I know that I am also responsible for the well-being of my relationship! I studied all the modules, took action on the tips and they worked!

He’s really changing, he’s making lots of efforts, he initiates romance with me and I feel so loved and understood.

If you have a chance to join this program, do it! Even if you think it won’t help, do it. Just for you. 6 weeks down the road, you’ll thank yourself for saying Yes!”

Anne Robert
[VENUS IN PINK] Optimistic girlfriend, addicted to me-time!

"Now I’m in a healthier relationship with my man, but also with myself."

“To be honest, I didn't think that a lack of me-time was my problem, so I wasn't sure if the class would really help me. I’m glad I took the plunge! I’ve benefited from this program in every way.

I’m no newbie. I've taken 4 other courses geared toward personal growth and spiritual transformation, and this was by far the most valuable! I'm SOOOO much more independent and in love with myself now and way more relaxed about my relationship. I have a much deeper understanding of myself and what a real loving relationship is all about.

As I sat with the videos (which are short and fabulous btw), I was surprised to uncover a deep bitterness toward the masculine that I had unconsciously been holding as a barrier to intimacy. With Lauren’s help I was able to find compassion for my man and that was really healing.

Now I'm in a healthier relationship with my man, but also with myself. I know myself so much more deeply, I'm not afraid to be honest with myself and I'm learning to be truly vulnerable.

If even a tiny part of you is considering joining this program, you’ve got to go for it! You'll learn so much about yourself and how to be a more conscious, loving, feel-good, balanced womanist!”

Jesse Powers
[VENUS IN BLUE] Musician, girlfriend, feel-good womanist!

"If you’re sick of feeling insecure in love and you want to feel powerful, confident, and well loved, join this program."

“Since joining this program, I’ve gotten rid of unrealistic expectations that do not serve me, my partner or my relationship. I used to be like a “nagging” and “needy” girl. Looking at my phone all the time, thinking why he doesn't send me a text? Now I can cherish my me-time and his me-time. I’m free of resentment and boy, does it feel good!

I used to think I should get angry at him in order for him to change and do better for me. I couldn’t have been more wrong. Now I have real tools that actually work.

If you’re sick of feeling insecure in love and relationships and you want to feel powerful, confident, and well loved, I highly recommend joining this program."

Kyungeun Kim

"This feeling of self-assurance is something I’m still getting used to and I love it!"

“I hesitated to join this program because I didn't WANT any me-time!  I was the girl who wanted every second I could get with him! Now I’m proud to say I enjoy my time away from him, and that makes us stronger.

The biggest shift I’ve seen is that I know that he's with me -- in the big sense -- even when he's not “with” me.  I know I have a partner and I trust in that love and partnership. This feeling of self-assurance is something I’m still getting used to and I love it!

If you get a chance to work with Lauren in this program – DO IT. She is so generous, real and personal with you. She’s the real deal and she really cares. You will learn so much. Even if you don't think you want me-time – Trust me, that's the very reason to do it!!”

Laura Lee
[VENUS IN PINK] Mom, Educator, soon-to-be PhD, a woman in love

"After years of struggling with depression, I’m happier and more content with myself than ever before!"

“Spending so much money on a course gave me pause but then I realized it’s only 3 sessions with my psychologist. And wow, it was more than worth it!! Working through this course has changed my life in a phenomenal way. I’m happier and more content with myself than ever before.

I’ve struggled with major depression for years and I believed Me-Time was a weakness and a source of shame. Now, with my new tools, Me Time enriches my life with self confidence, self-love and happiness. Something big has shifted within me and I feel so hopeful.

The worksheet exercises were my favorite! The practicality of this course has benefitted both my husband and me. I’ve stopped nitpicking and instead I can focus on all the things he does to make me happy. We are both feeling more friendly and I am experiencing more security, happiness, and intimacy in our marriage.

Though it is an online course, the weekly emails from Lauren give you a sense of not being alone while you do this profound self-work. I would definitely recommend this course to any woman who struggles feeling happy and fulfilled in herself and is ready to enjoy her life and relationship in a brand new way.”

[VENUS IN BLUE] Mother of 3, Married 31 years

"Now I have the courage to be true to myself. If you’re thinking of joining this inspired course, DO."

“Hypnosis, EFT, journaling, counselling and many self-help books have taken me a long way but there were still sticking points I couldn’t conquer. And frankly I wasn’t sure an online program could give me the depth of transformation and support I was looking for.

Lauren’s program went above and beyond! Gosh I learned so much! Men and women really are different and now I know that's a good thing! The tools and techniques Lauren teaches you, they work. My relationship immediately became a lot more lighthearted and fun.

Before this program I thought my boyfriend was un-supportive and un-romantic. Now I think he’s been trying his best to make me happy this whole time, he just didn’t know how…because I didn’t know how to show him. It brings a tear to my eye to see that the love and support was there all along I just didn’t know how to access it.

Looking back, so much of my life I’ve forced myself to continue on a path regardless of how I feel. Now I have the courage to be true to myself and I am consciously making choices to support my You-We-Me-Time needs. As a result, I am a LOT more consistently happy, confident, and relaxed.

It's difficult to put into words how I've gone from feeling utterly despondent and depressed to feeling lighthearted, hopeful and empowered with tools.

If you’re thinking of joining this inspired course, DO. You, your partner and your whole family will thank you for it. I’m so grateful for the wonderful support I’ve received here. It has made and is continuing to make a huge impact on my life for the better."

Lara Clifford
[VENUS IN PINK] Intrepid human being in search for wisdom, happiness and fulfillment

"I thought ‘we need counselling, we need a break through, we need something big!’ I had no idea what I was getting into..."

“When I came across Lauren's me-time program, I thought, ‘that will be a good thing to learn some day, but I have bigger issues in my life and relationship right now than me-time! We need counseling, we need a break through, we need something big!’

But I had no idea what I was getting into! I expected some helpful tips, but as soon as I started this course, things started to change. Resentment started to melt away, and my happiness level sky rocketed!  I suddenly I felt more empowered in everything I did, and I remembered what brings me joy.

I had never realized that every issue in my life, every problem in my relationship, or feeling of dissatisfaction was all because I didn’t have the you-we-me-time system. LITERALLY every one.

The tension and resentment has faded away and I feel like his girlfriend again! I feel like I am the girl that he fell in love with, and that makes life more fun! It is a HUGE deal!

Even with all of the positive changes, soul searching, and introspection of this course, it still feels fun and easy!! It really is amazing! It is so worth the investment in yourself!!"

Micah McCasland
Nashville TN Vocal Coach, married to and building a business with my best friend.

"I'm telling ya...It’s like a whole new life! It’s like breathing fresh air after struggling to breath under water."

I was really hesitant to join How to Get More Me-Time because how is me spending more time with me going to help a relationship?

I was surprised by every lesson. With You, We, Me-time – Lauren showed me a system to balance my life perfectly and it works. In fact, even though I have more on my plate than ever, I actually feel less bogged down.

Before this program I thought I’d be doomed to constantly begging for my needs to be met. Now I get what I need with a lot less effort and things work out rather easily!

Because me-time is a part of my relationship, we appreciate our time together even more. We time isn’t pressured, needy or forced. It’s an easy come together. My past relationships always felt overwhelming. Now, even with us both juggling being single parents, it’s STILL less stressful.

I’m telling ya, it’s like a whole new life! It’s like breathing fresh clean air after struggling to breath under water. I feel very genuine. Very me. In fact, since the course I know myself better than I did in all the years before. It’s very empowering.

If you’re thinking of joining the program, do it. You’ll thank yourself every day.

Cristal Minor
[VENUS IN BLUE] Single mom, in love with my new relationship.

"Thanks to my new tools, I feel in abundance of support!"

“I was not sure if me-time or the lack of me-time was my problem. I knew I was unhappy, and I knew something was wrong. But I wasn’t sure what. Now everything is different than it was before.

The biggest changes I’ve seen are that men feel comfortable with me now. I am happy with myself and my life. I’ve entered cooperation and connection with men and let go of my angst-induced barriers that kept me isolated. I’m not so exhausted anymore. I put myself first, always, no matter what. And thanks to my new tools, I feel in abundance of support!

Lauren has an incredible talent to bring wisdom and insights close to people, in a practical and hands-on way. You can expect understanding, surprises, and solutions you never would have known existed to seemingly “unfixable” problems.

I’m telling every woman that crosses my path: Join Me-Time! Yes, this is the right choice! Go for it without fear, you will learn how to be happy with yourself, your life, and the man in your life. It is worth every Euro. Do it, do not think more about it, it will pay you back a thousand times."

[VENUS IN BLUE] Single, Professional, Mother of two, Finally finding happiness in my relationships!


Module 1


Find out why this undervalued and often misunderstood “self-care” tool is critical to your health and the health of your relationship! You’ll learn why men pull away and how your ME-TIME can bring back those loving feelings.

Module 2


Putting yourself first is hard. I’ll teach you the skills to tap into your internal “alarm system” so you can always identify when ME-TIME is the most important choice for you, your work, and your relationships.

Module 3


In this module, we’ll bust through the unrealistic expectations, limiting beliefs, and sneaky assumptions that interfere with you being your most loving, feel-good self. There is a way to say “no” to others without feeling guilty and you’re going to learn it this week!

Module 4

How to Optimize your HORMONES for happiness! (AKA: The You-We-Me Time™ System)

You’ll learn how to hack into you and your partner’s uniquely different hormonal systems in order to connect in a brand new way. Not only that, this self-knowledge helps you know exactly what you need in any given moment to feel happy and fulfilled. Side-effects may include feeling like Superwoman.

Module 5


Learn how you’re unknowingly pushing your support system away and your man in the process. This is the week you drop bad relationship habits (we ALL have ‘em!) and discover a new approach that will keep you both happy and attracted for the long haul. A total win win!

Module 6


This week we’ll cover the exact strategies to get your man to give you 5 star treatment in the core WE-TIME realms: Romance, Communication and Help around the house. Unlike most strategies out there, these are completely practical and sustainable because they work with your gender differences to create a momentum of success that grows long after you complete the course.

Get Instant Access to the complete How to Get More Me-Time program!

Here’s what SELF-HELP INDUSTRY LEADERS have to say about my tried-and-true course!


With How to Get More Me-Time, Lauren helps a new generation of modern women to find increasing fulfillment at work and at home. Not an easy thing these days. However, I am certain that if you apply these new recipes for personal success, that you too will create a lifetime of love and happiness. Prepare to enjoy the relationships in your life like you never have before.

Jack Canfield
Author of The Success Principles TM and co-creator of the bestselling Chicken Soup for the Soul® series.

Lauren delivers brilliant, fresh knowledge in an engaging way. How To Get More Me-Time is a Masterclass for making your relationships work, feeling happy, and finding peace of mind.

Marci Schimoff
best-selling author of Chicken Soup for the Woman’s Soul and Happy For No Reason

Whether you’re new to MarsVenus or a long-time fan, you will learn brand new insights and tools. Lauren’s message speaks directly to women of all ages. She is profoundly wise and at the same time completely practical. With every module you will discover a new skill that you can immediately apply to improve your life and relationships. With Lauren’s help you can begin to live the life you deserve.

John Gray
#1 NY Times best-selling author of Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus and Beyond Mars and Venus


Immediate access to the entire You-We-Me-Time™ System

($1000 VALUE)

20+ step-by-step, entertaining, upbeat videos

($1200 VALUE)

20+ Worksheets for practical implementation and skill building

($800 VALUE)

6 POP quizzes for memory retention and review

($200 VALUE)

Epic Answer Vault reveals all the group coaching Q&A from past live sessions

($600 VALUE)

One whole year of access so you can refresh, review, or just go at your own perfect pace


PLUS, if you sign up now, you’ll also receive these bonuses! ($500 VALUE)

  • 101 ME-TIME IDEAS! These suggestions will help you come up with easy, fun, nurturing activities that are designed to totally replenish you hormonally.
  • 75 WE-TIME ACTIVITIES! Whether you’re single or in a relationship you’ll get amazing ideas for activities you can do to fulfill the We-Time hormones and feel even more loved, supported and relaxed in your life.
  • Why Me-Time is Critical For Your Calendar! It’s science, girlfriend!
  • How to Make Your Cycle Your Greatest Ally. Because actually, it is!
  • The Sexy Way to Ask for Me-Time. There is a way!
  • A Single Lady’s Guide to Attracting The Right Partner! It starts with you.
  • A Single Lady’s Guide to Support Systems. You don’t need a man for that!

The total value of this course is well over $4000!


Less than a months’ worth of therapy and guaranteed to save you years of headaches, arguments, and relationship frustrations for life…


  • Click that pretty “join now” button and you’ll be guided to create an account with MarsVenus.com to complete your secure payment. Your account credentials will also the be the way you access your members-only program.
  • After you complete your secure purchase (any major credit card works!), you’ll receive TWO emails: one with a confirmation and invitation to join the private Facebook group AND one inviting you to begin module 1!
  • You’ll get instant access to the complete program and receive guided emails over the next 6 weeks.
  • You’ll work through the You-We-Me-time System™, feel SO good, and watch your relationship improve and deepen over the following 6 weeks and beyond!

Ready to feel good and pump up the romance in your life?

Get Instant Access to the complete How to Get More Me-Time program!


“Now I have belief in myself, and in love, and feel like I’m finally armed with the skills I’ve been missing for the last thirty-seven years."

Let me start by saying that I’m a personal development junkie.

The first time I read Men Are From Mars, I was probably a teenager. That said, all my self-help and relationship binge-reading didn’t stop me from leaping into relationships where I either felt constantly smothered or entirely dropped, or avoiding relationships altogether.

All my adult life (thus far), I attracted men that were either unavailable OR so needy and clingy that my own autonomy felt threatened. To be honest, I had become jaded and confused about men, and started to wonder if there were any out there who had feelings but not so many that they sucked all the air out of the room...

When I chose to dive into Me-Time, I was just coming up for air after my last relationship had ended tragically. Just a few months after we broke up, my ex passed away which was deeply traumatic. And, when we were together, we’d had issues that made me seriously question if I could ever co-create real Soul Mate love. After all the loss, I really didn’t know if I could find my happy or open my heart again.

I also didn’t know what healthy love could, should, or would look like. No one modeled this for me growing up. But what I did know was that I didn’t want to walk around feeling anxious about relationships and not having the confidence to open my heart again. How To Get More Me-Time gave me all that confidence and so much more.

Thanks to Lauren’s program, I now have the science and skills I need to protect my happiness, my Me-Time, to actively care for myself and my heart so I’m full of joy and light, and the understanding I need to partner again. I now feel like I “get men” and know what needs I can expect and ask a partner to meet. Also, she gives you so many lists!!! And scripts! I love lists and scripts. 🙂

Before this program, I felt like I was “flying blind” as a cis-hetero woman who is proudly type A but also desires partnership with an Alpha male. Now, I feel like I can do this. I have belief in myself, and in love, and feel like I’m finally armed with the skills I’ve been missing for the last thirty-seven years. Trust me, you will review this material again and again when you’re in a relationship, but do NOT miss out on preparing yourself to date smart NOW if you’re single. Without this course, I wouldn’t feel ready to get back out there again. I finally know how to create the love of my dreams. (Tune back in next season, for my most epic love story, coming soon… 😉)

[VENUS IN BLUE] Writer, Business Owner, Hip Hop Dance Enthusiast

"My partner just asked me to marry him, as he said he's never felt more comfortable and appreciated in a relationship! And I feel the same."

I've just finished the course and I'm elated! It has made such an impressive impact on my relationship. 

Before the program I thought ‘There's no way I can get everything I need, but it's ok, that's life.’ Now I think: ‘Wow, I can have a great career AND a great relationship where I feel loved and supported! That's incredible!’

Now I know how to ask for things I need and I know how to motivate him to give it to me (romance, listening, help around the house..). And the good thing is: it's a win-win situation! I feel supported, loved and safer in the world and he feels appreciated and successful in making me happy which increases his self-esteem too!

A few days ago, my partner asked me to marry him, as he said he's never felt more comfortable and appreciated in a relationship. And I feel the same. So thank you, Lauren, from the bottom of my heart  

You should know that Lauren understands men and women so well! It's a pleasure to go through the course and feel so identified with her stories. I felt so understood. 

The program has empowered me, and yet is so gentle and kind. Seems an oxymoron to speak about power and kindness in the same sentence, and yet this is the new woman, the woman I want to become and the woman this program helped me become: a woman who embraces her femininity, her vulnerability, and her power.”

[VENUS IN BLUE] Professional in the tech industry, passionate about self-development, in a very happy relationship. 

"Now I have a partner who wants to help, and even better than that, he wants me to be happy and get what I want!! If you’re thinking of investing, DO IT!"

“I have taken a lot of courses but none as interactive and fun as this one. Lauren shares real experiences and has a way of explaining things in a way that sticks. She really knows relationships and simplifies things so you don't feel like you’re crazy or alone.

Before taking the course, I had no time to myself, as a result I was resentful of my spouse and even my children. Now everything has changed. Now that I have the tools to motivate my husband, I have a partner who wants to help, and even better than that, he wants me to be happy and get what I want!

Using the You-We-Me-Time system helps me be a happier woman, a better wife & a fun mommy. If you’re thinking of investing in this program, DO IT! This course is totally worth the money and time and you won’t regret it ever! In fact I am telling all my friends & clients already!!”

Daina Selph
[VENUS IN BLUE] Married 10 years, mother of 2, student and entrepreneur.

"Before this program I thought I was alone in having these relationship difficulties but now I know I’m not! Lauren explains exactly what you are feeling."

“Let me tell you I was skeptical! Would focusing on “ME” help my relationship? Is spending all this money on an online program worth it?!

OMG. I was surprised every step of the way! Each module gave brand new insights and a new way of viewing my relationship and my partner: it's so true that he responds to me!

Before this program I thought I was alone in having these relationship difficulties but now I know I’m not! Lauren explains exactly what you are feeling: I would often start watching a video and think.......ah but what about this?......and then all of a sudden that issue would come up and be explained too!!!

The most amazing thing is that my partner and I were going through a really difficult stuck period in our relationship prior to starting the course. Since taking it, things have improved dramatically between us, it's like totally life changing already and I know this is just the beginning; there will always be work to do but now I have the tools and the skills to make it work! I am really feeling his love now and it's amazing!

You should know that How to Get More Me-Time is a relaxed and non-judgmental programme that makes you feel empowered and safe to explore these issues. And the benefits are amazing! I’m telling you, Go for it....it's worth every penny!"

Jenna Cook

"Feeling good starts with getting Lauren’s program."

“A job, outside projects, two kids, a household, a marriage….ALL things I wanted yet many times I felt more a slave to them than actually enjoying them like I had expected.

From the first video, I could tell this course was what I needed. With so much long-winded self-help out there, it is refreshing to receive concise, relevant information that I can access and use immediately. Now I can say no without feeling awkward or like I’m letting others down. I know how to take care of my own needs first.

Taking time for yourself is one of those easy sounding things to do, but it is really tricky. It is not instinctual. Lauren Gray’s program offers skills and techniques that every woman needs for the rest of her life to keep herself nourished. Feeling good starts with getting Lauren’s program.”

Karen Josephson
[VENUS IN BLUE] Married over 35 years, 2 grown children, designer/artist

"By understanding the science behind my instinctive reactions, I’m making better conscious choices for myself and improving my relationship."

“Even though I have done a lot of work in this area, I have benefited tremendously from this course! Lauren brings awareness and understanding into your life that creates life-changing shifts that will benefit all of your relationships. Her style satisfies both the logical person, with all of her scientific explanations, as well as the intuitive person. She explains biologically why we react in certain ways. By understanding the science behind my instinctive reactions, I’ve been able to make better conscious choices for myself and improve my relationship with my husband. I would recommend this program to all women, including Health and Life Coaches so that they can better serve their clients by walking the talk.”

Lia Venet
[VENUS IN BLUE] Married 21 years, Mother of 2, Wellness Coach for Women.

"If you value your relationships, health, and happiness, sign up for this program and don’t look back!"

“When I joined Lauren’s course, I knew it would be good. Lauren is genuine, super-insightful and funny. There was no way I wasn’t going to love it. I’ve been a fan of Lauren’s blogs for years. What I didn’t expect is quite how much I’d learn. I’ve really connected with the MarsVenus philosophies for a while, so I thought much of this would be a review. Boy - was I wrong! I did not expect to learn completely NEW stuff.

Lauren’s approach is so engaging and her angle is so refreshing - I had lightbulbs pinging off all over the shop! By using the new tools and communication strategies I’ve learned, my husband has even been planning romantic dates for us!

I’m not kidding when I say (3 years later) something from this course pops into my head almost every day; this work continues to support me and help me see things more clearly. I feel so lucky to have that.

If you value your relationships, health and happiness, sign up for this program and don’t look back. As the cheesy hair commercials say: you really are worth it! This program will pay you back ten-thousand-fold, I promise. If your man is like mine, he’ll love you even more for it too!”

Nadia Ansari
[VENUS IN PINK] Newlywed, New Mom, Blood Sugar Balancing Blogger & Wellness Warrior.

Ready to love your me-time, your relationship, and your life?


How am I going to learn? Do you have to attend the classes LIVE or are they recordings?
How to Get More Me-Time is an online program where you can watch the pre-recorded videos and learn from your computer any time of the day or night. You can even listen on the go via the audio downloads. My goal is to make your online learning experience as easy and enjoyable as possible. Once you’ve purchased the course, you can access all 6 modules within the Academy tab “My Courses” at MarsVenus.com. Each module is filled with step-by-step training videos, action step worksheets, and result-oriented quizzes.
I don’t have a ton of free time right now, is this a good time to sign up for the course?
YES! I made this course VERY real-life friendly. The lessons are short and can be broken up into bite size pieces. Videos range from 5-15 minutes long. They’re really easy to fit in whenever you’ve got a moment. (On average, this course should only take you about 1 hour a week to go through. That’s less than 10 minutes a day!) …And because of the unique teaching style of the course, my participants see results as early as their first week, which makes making time for the course (and themselves), even easier!
Does my partner have to take the course too in order for it to work for us?
No. Your partner doesn’t need to take the course in order for it to work for your relationship. In fact, he doesn’t even need to know about it! Because when you approach your partner with these new tools and insights, he will automatically respond to you with the love you want.
I’m single and don’t currently have a man in my life. Will I be able to benefit from this course?
Absolutely! You don’t need to be coupled up in order to feel great with the You-We-Me-Time™ system. About 40% of the students who have gone through the program were single when they signed up. Most have already gone on to find, attract, and create their ideal relationships. And those that haven’t YET, are enjoying their new-found relationships with themselves and the men they meet. If you’re smart, you learn how to get your needs met BEFORE you jump into a relationship, otherwise you end up repeating past patterns that don’t serve you. My dad always says, “If you were planning on skiing an expert slope, you wouldn’t jump right into it or you’d get hurt. You would take lessons first to ensure a feel-good experience.” Relationships are no different! I’ve also provided two bonus videos specifically to show my single ladies exactly how to take action on these tools when there’s no man in their lives.
My partner and I already have plenty of "me" time. I’m frustrated and hurt at the lack of “us” time and I keep pushing him away further. Will this program "fix" what’s wrong with us?
If the love is there and you show up for the lessons and worksheets, this course will deepen your intimacy and bring you closer together. “Me-Time,” isn’t just time apart from your partner (that already feels familiar and it’s probably not working). “Me-Time,” in the way we use it in the course, is about making it easy for him to succeed, and motivating him to meet your needs. Most importantly, it’s about giving you the tools you need to optimize your hormones for happiness and fulfillment. “Me-time” alone cannot do this, but the You-We-Me Time™ System can. He doesn’t need to be internally motivated to “fix” anything in order for him to start participating in this relationship in a new and exciting way. My course shows you exactly, step-by-step, with tons of examples, how to approach your partner to get the results you want. This means, you don’t just get more “us time” where he might scan his phone or act distant. You’ll get more quality, intimate, reciprocal and mutually fulfilling We-Time.
Is this going to be worth my time?
You will never regret the time you spend learning how to have a fulfilling relationship; exploring the ways you inadvertently push your partner away so that you can self-correct and open the doors to love. You’ll never regret saying YES to more intimacy in your relationship and more love in your life. I can stand by the power of this work because I practice it myself and I get to live the benefits every day. My Me-Time participants stand with me. It’s worth it to them because they showed up, watched the videos and did the worksheets. If you treat this course like it’s worth your time, it will be.
This program may work for other women, but what if it doesn’t work for me?
How to Get More Me-Time comes with a 30-day, 100% money back guarantee. Simply show us you’ve done the worksheet exercises and we will happily refund your ticket price – no back and forth. THAT’s how confident I am in this program and in YOUR ability to create personal happiness and fulfillment with the support given.
This sounds great! What happens after I purchase?
You will receive an email confirmation of your purchase as well as an email inviting you to begin Module 1. You will then receive guiding email invitations to your new modules every week after that. See you on the inside!

If you have any other questions, don’t hesitate to email [email protected] and our friendly Mars Venus team will get back to you ASAP.

With love,

P.S. I know what it’s like to do relationships the “wrong” way – ending up overworked, under-satisfied, and generally unfulfilled. I’ve seen this firsthand (in my early days of dating) and time and time again with my clients, readers and students. That’s the reason I’ve put this course together. I believe SO much in the quality and value of How to Get More Me-Time – and I’m SO confident that it will help you become happier in your life and relationship that I will guarantee it. If you buy this course, go through the first few weeks of videos, do the homework, and still don’t learn anything new, or see and feel a difference – I will give you a full refund. That’s a 100% Money-Back Guarantee within 30 Days of Purchase with proof that you’ve done the worksheet exercises.

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