“This course is an answered prayer!”

"Before this program I thought that the issues I was having with my significant other were unfixable and that maybe we were not meant to spend our life together. Now, I know that we are meant to be together and that with practice and my new Me-Time tools, we can be a TEAM again!

Lauren Gray made an amazing course! I love that you can do it at your own pace, I love the videos and worksheets, I love that you easily get to put your learning into action! I love that Lauren made me laugh, cry and want to hug her through the screen after each video. This course is for every woman out there! I love that I can come back anytime to this course and refresh my knowledge on [You-We-]Me-Time.

After this program, you will not only have the tools to have a successful relationship, you will have the tools to be the BEST version of YOU.

 I want to thank Lauren for a Life-Time of Knowledge that will always be in my everyday living. This course will always stay close to my heart. It was everything I was needing in my life. If you are truly looking for help and wanting to make a positive change in your life, this course is an answered prayer."

- Shanda Obridgewitch
Nurse, Newly-wed since the program!

“If you’re single and you’re looking for complete clarity on how to be in a fulfilling relationship, how to take charge of your happiness without depending on a man, sign up!”

“I have been diligently looking for science-based relationship advice for two years to show me how to be more “laid back” in a relationship but advice out there is just too general! I’m so happy I joined this course.

Before this program I thought “I am a crazy, needy, and insecure woman.” Now I know that my different phases of hormones influence my experience, therefore, I understand how to choose activities, nutrients, and exercises to help me become my emotionally best self!

I used to approach relationships with disempowering beliefs and expectations about myself, relationship, and the guy but this course helped me to create my own happiness with or without a guy.

One of the biggest shifts I’ve seen is that I have a more balanced view about my romantic life therefore, I can make more rational/conscious choices when it comes to choosing the right life partner; I am no longer hijacked by my emotions.

This course is easy to understand but so so powerful. I’ve worked with other dating coaches before and I have felt disempowered and discouraged by the experience; working with Lauren in this program is so empowering! I love myself more, I feel more confident with men and I am no longer afraid of being single.

If you’re single and you’re looking for complete clarity on how to be in a fulfilling relationship, how to take charge of your happiness without depending on a man, sign up! This course Lauren created is beyond helpful."

- Jihane Mochamad
[VENUS IN PINK] engaged employee, busy mom

“My partner is now ready to get married, the me-time activities have done miracles!!!”

“I’ve been a student of personal development, spirituality, and relationships for years and this program allowed me to see the world in a completely new way.

Before this program, I thought that men and women needed to sacrifice a bit of themselves to make their relationship work. I used to think "Men are all the same. I've tried everything!" Now I know I can transform my relationship and GUIDE my partner to meet my needs. I feel empowered as I understand my partner and myself better and use these tools to get the support I need. Lauren opened my eyes!

I was surprised by how fast my stress levels decreased thanks to these small shifts in perspective! I was also surprised by my partner's positive reaction when I applied some simple principles right in the beginning. Using my new tools, he has done an outstanding job at meeting my needs for more communication, more intimacy, more, more everything. And after four years, my partner is now ready to get married (the me-time activities have done miracles!!!)

“Don’t waste any more time fighting, being frustrated or losing good relationships to simple misunderstandings…Sign up for this program today!”

- Claire Montazeaud 
[VENUS IN BLUE] Freelance translator, seaman’s girlfriend (Newly-wed since the program!)

“He initiates romance with me and I feel so loved and understood.”

“At first I wasn’t sure this was the solution to my relationship problems. I thought, “How could an online program be the most efficient way to fix this?” I was so surprised by my results. My life has changed since following Lauren’s program.

When I signed up for this class, I wasn’t in good shape; I was depressed and sure that my life was falling apart. In my relationship I felt alone and misunderstood. I thought I could improve my relationship by myself and that I just had to try harder. When I began this course my relationship was almost dead.

Since the program, all this has changed. Before I thought that the problems came from my boyfriend (he didn’t make enough efforts, he didn’t understand me)…Now I know that I am also responsible for the well-being of my relationship! I studied all the modules, took action on the tips and they worked!

He’s really changing, he’s making lots of efforts, he initiates romance with me and I feel so loved and understood.

If you have a chance to join this program, do it! Even if you think it won’t help, do it. Just for you. 6 weeks down the road, you’ll thank yourself for saying Yes!”

- Anne Robert 
[VENUS IN PINK] Optimistic girlfriend, addicted to me-time!

“Now I’m in a healthier relationship with my man, but also with myself.”

“To be honest, I didn't think that a lack of me-time was my problem, so I wasn't sure if the class would really help me. I’m glad I took the plunge! I’ve benefited from this program in every way.

I’m no newbie. I've taken 4 other courses geared toward personal growth and spiritual transformation, and this was by far the most valuable! I'm SOOOO much more independent and in love with myself now and way more relaxed about my relationship. I have a much deeper understanding of myself and what a real loving relationship is all about.

As I sat with the videos (which are short and fabulous btw), I was surprised to uncover a deep bitterness toward the masculine that I had unconsciously been holding as a barrier to intimacy. With Lauren’s help I was able to find compassion for my man and that was really healing.

Now I'm in a healthier relationship with my man, but also with myself. I know myself so much more deeply, I'm not afraid to be honest with myself and I'm learning to be truly vulnerable.

If even a tiny part of you is considering joining this program, you’ve got to go for it! You'll learn so much about yourself and how to be a more conscious, loving, feel-good, balanced womanist!”

- Jesse Powers
[VENUS IN BLUE] Musician, girlfriend, feel-good womanist!

“If you’re sick of feeling insecure in love and you want to feel powerful, confident, and well-loved, join this program.”

“Since joining this program, I’ve gotten rid of unrealistic expectations that do not serve me, my partner or my relationship. I used to be like a “nagging” and “needy” girl. Looking at my phone all the time, thinking why he doesn't send me a text? Now I can cherish my me-time and his me-time. I’m free of resentment and boy, does it feel good!

I used to think I should get angry at him in order for him to change and do better for me. I couldn’t have been more wrong. Now I have real tools that actually work.

If you’re sick of feeling insecure in love and relationships and you want to feel powerful, confident, and well-loved, I highly recommend joining this program."

- Kyungeun Kim
[VENUS IN PINK]

“This feeling of self-assurance is something I’m still getting used to and I love it!”

 “I hesitated to join this program because I didn't WANT any me-time!  I was the girl who wanted every second I could get with him!  Now I’m proud to say I enjoy my time away from him, and that makes us stronger.

The biggest shift I’ve seen is that I know that he's with me -- in the big sense -- even when he's not “with” me.  I know I have a partner and I trust in that love and partnership. This feeling of self-assurance is something I’m still getting used to and I love it!

If you get a chance to work with Lauren in this program – DO IT. She is so generous, real and personal with you. She’s the real deal and she really cares. You will learn so much. Even if you don't think you want me-time – Trust me, that's the very reason to do it!!”

- Laura Lee
[VENUS IN PINK] Mom, Educator, soon-to-be PhD, a woman in love

“Now I have the courage to be true to myself. If you’re thinking of joining this inspired course, DO.”

“Hypnosis, EFT, journaling, counselling and many self-help books have taken me a long way but there were still sticking points I couldn’t conquer. And frankly I wasn’t sure an online program could give me the depth of transformation and support I was looking for.

Lauren’s program went above and beyond! Gosh I learned so much! Men and women really are different and now I know that's a good thing! The tools and techniques Lauren teaches you, they work. My relationship immediately became a lot more lighthearted and fun.

Before this program I thought my boyfriend was un-supportive and un-romantic. Now I think he’s been trying his best to make me happy this whole time, he just didn’t know how…because I didn’t know how to show him. It brings a tear to my eye to see that the love and support was there all along I just didn’t know how to access it.

Looking back, so much of my life I’ve forced myself to continue on a path regardless of how I feel. Now I have the courage to be true to myself and I am consciously making choices to support my You-We-Me-Time needs. As a result, I am a LOT more consistently happy, confident, and relaxed.

It's difficult to put into words how I've gone from feeling utterly despondent and depressed to feeling lighthearted, hopeful and empowered with tools.

If you’re thinking of joining this inspired course, DO. You, your partner and your whole family will thank you for it. I’m so grateful for the wonderful support I’ve received here. It has made and is continuing to make a huge impact on my life for the better."

- Lara Clifford
[VENUS IN PINK] Intrepid human being in search for wisdom, happiness and fulfillment

"I thought ‘we need counselling, we need a breakthrough, we need something big!’ I had no idea what I was getting into...”

“When I came across Lauren's me-time program, I thought, ‘that will be a good thing to learn some day, but I have bigger issues in my life and relationship right now than me-time! We need counseling, we need a breakthrough, we need something big!’

But I had no idea what I was getting into! I expected some helpful tips, but as soon as I started this course, things started to change. Resentment started to melt away, and my happiness level sky rocketed!  I suddenly felt more empowered in everything I did, and I remembered what brings me joy.

I had never realized that every issue in my life, every problem in my relationship, or feeling of dissatisfaction was all because I didn’t have the you-we-me-time system. LITERALLY every one. 

The tension and resentment has faded away and I feel like his girlfriend again! I feel like I am the girl that he fell in love with, and that makes life more fun! It is a HUGE deal!

Even with all of the positive changes, soul searching, and introspection of this course, it still feels fun and easy!! It really is amazing! It is so worth the investment in yourself!!"

- Micah McCasland
Nashville TN Vocal Coach, married to and building a business with my best friend.

“I’m telling ya...It’s like a whole new life! It’s like breathing fresh air after struggling to breath under water.”

"I was really hesitant to join How to Get More Me-Time because how is me spending more time with me going to help a relationship?

I was surprised by every lesson. With You, We, Me-time – Lauren showed me a system to balance my life perfectly and it works. In fact, even though I have more on my plate than ever, I actually feel less bogged down.

Before this program I thought I’d be doomed to constantly begging for my needs to be met. Now I get what I need with a lot less effort and things work out rather easily!

Because me-time is a part of my relationship, we appreciate our time together even more. We time isn’t pressured, needy or forced. It’s an easy come together. My past relationships always felt overwhelming. Now, even with us both juggling being single parents, it’s STILL less stressful.

I’m telling ya, it’s like a whole new life! It’s like breathing fresh clean air after struggling to breath under water. I feel very genuine. Very me. In fact, since the course I know myself better than I did in all the years before. It’s very empowering.

If you’re thinking of joining the program, do it. You’ll thank yourself every day."

- Cristal Minor
[VENUS IN BLUE] Single mom, in love with my new relationship.

“Thanks to my new tools, I feel in abundance of support!”

“I was not sure if me-time or the lack of me-time was my problem. I knew I was unhappy, and I knew something was wrong. But I wasn’t sure what. Now everything is different than it was before.

The biggest changes I’ve seen are that men feel comfortable with me now. I am happy with myself and my life. I’ve entered cooperation and connection with men and let go of my angst-induced barriers that kept me isolated. I’m not so exhausted anymore. I put myself first, always, no matter what. And thanks to my new tools, I feel in abundance of support!

Lauren has an incredible talent to bring wisdom and insights close to people, in a practical and hands-on way. You can expect understanding, surprises, and solutions you never would have known existed to seemingly “unfixable” problems.

I’m telling every woman that crosses my path: Join Me-Time! Yes, this is the right choice! Go for it without fear, you will learn how to be happy with yourself, your life, and the man in your life. It is worth every Euro. Do it, do not think more about it, it will pay you back a thousand times."

- Alexandra
[VENUS IN BLUE] Single, Professional, Mother of two, Finally finding happiness in my relationships

“Now I have belief in myself, and in love, and feel like I’m finally armed with the skills I’ve been missing for the last thirty-seven years.”

“Let me start by saying that I’m a personal development junkie.

The first time I read Men Are from Mars, I was probably a teenager. That said, all my self-help and relationship binge-reading didn’t stop me from leaping into relationships where I either felt constantly smothered or entirely dropped, or avoiding relationships altogether.

All my adult life (thus far), I attracted men that were either unavailable OR so needy and clingy that my own autonomy felt threatened. To be honest, I had become jaded and confused about men, and started to wonder if there were any out there who had feelings but not so many that they sucked all the air out of the room…

When I chose to dive into Me-Time, I was just coming up for air after my last relationship had ended tragically. Just a few months after we broke up, my ex passed away which was deeply traumatic. And, when we were together, we’d had issues that made me seriously question if I could ever co-create real Soul Mate love. After all the loss, I really didn’t know if I could find my happy or open my heart again.

I also didn’t know what healthy love could, should, or would look like. No one modeled this for me growing up. But what I did know was that I didn’t want to walk around feeling anxious about relationships and not having the confidence to open my heart again. How to Get More Me-Time gave me all that confidence and so much more.

Thanks to Lauren’s program, I now have the science and skills I need to protect my happiness, my Me-Time, to actively care for myself and my heart so I’m full of joy and light, and the understanding I need to partner again. I now feel like I “get men” and know what needs I can expect and ask a partner to meet. Also, she gives you so many lists!!! And scripts! I love lists and scripts. 🙂

Before this program, I felt like I was “flying blind” as a cis-hetero woman who is proudly type A but also desires partnership with an Alpha male. Now, I feel like I can do this. I have belief in myself, and in love, and feel like I’m finally armed with the skills I’ve been missing for the last thirty-seven years. Trust me, you will review this material again and again when you’re in a relationship, but do NOT miss out on preparing yourself to date smart NOW if you’re single. Without this course, I wouldn’t feel ready to get back out there again. I finally know how to create the love of my dreams. (Tune back in next season, for my most epic love story, coming soon… 😉)”

- Jamie
[VENUS IN BLUE] Writer, Business Owner, Hip Hop Dance Enthusiast

“My partner asked me to marry him, as he said he's never felt more comfortable and appreciated in a relationship. And I feel the same.”

“I’ve just finished the course and I'm elated! It has made such an impressive impact on my relationship. 

Before the program I thought ‘There's no way I can get everything I need, but it's ok, that's life.’ Now I think: ‘Wow, I can have a great career AND a great relationship where I feel loved and supported! That's incredible!’

Now I know how to ask for things I need and I know how to motivate him to give it to me (romance, listening, help around the house..). And the good thing is: it's a win-win situation! I feel supported, loved and safer in the world and he feels appreciated and successful in making me happy which increases his self-esteem too!

A few days ago, my partner asked me to marry him, as he said he's never felt more comfortable and appreciated in a relationship. And I feel the same. So thank you Lauren, from the bottom of my heart. 

You should know that Lauren understands men and women so well! It's a pleasure to go through the course and feel so identified with her stories. I felt so understood. 

The program has empowered me, and yet is so gentle and kind. Seems an oxymoron to speak about power and kindness in the same sentence, and yet this is the new woman, the woman I want to become and the woman this program helped me become: a woman who embraces her femininity, her vulnerability, and her power.”

- Chiara
[VENUS IN BLUE] Professional in the tech industry, passionate about self-development, in a very happy relationship.

“Now I have a partner who wants to help, and even better than that, he wants me to be happy and get what I want!! If you’re thinking of investing, DO IT!”

“I have taken a lot of courses but none as interactive and fun as this one. Lauren shares real experiences and has a way of explaining things in a way that sticks. She really knows relationships and simplifies things so you don't feel like you’re crazy or alone. 

Before taking the course, I had no time to myself, as a result I was resentful of my spouse and even my children. Now everything has changed. Now that I have the tools to motivate my husband, I have a partner who wants to help, and even better than that, he wants me to be happy and get what I want! 

Using the You-We-Me-Time system helps me be a happier woman, a better wife & a fun mommy. If you’re thinking of investing in this program, DO IT! This course is totally worth the money and time and you won’t regret it ever! In fact, I am telling all my friends & clients already!!”

- Daina Selph
[VENUS IN BLUE] Married 10 years, mother of 2, student and entrepreneur.

“Before this program I thought I was alone in having these relationship difficulties but now I know I’m not! Lauren explains exactly what you are feeling.”

“Let me tell you I was skeptical! Would focusing on “ME” help my relationship? Is spending all this money on an online program worth it?!

OMG. I was surprised every step of the way! Each module gave brand new insights and a new way of viewing my relationship and my partner: it's so true that he responds to me!

Before this program I thought I was alone in having these relationship difficulties but now I know I’m not! Lauren explains exactly what you are feeling: I would often start watching a video and think.......ah but what about this?......and then all of a sudden that issue would come up and be explained too!!!

The most amazing thing is that my partner and I were going through a really difficult stuck period in our relationship prior to starting the course. Since taking it, things have improved dramatically between us, it's like totally life-changing already and I know this is just the beginning; there will always be work to do but now I have the tools and the skills to make it work! I am really feeling his love now and it's amazing!

You should know that How to Get More Me-Time is a relaxed and non-judgmental programme that makes you feel empowered and safe to explore these issues. And the benefits are amazing! I’m telling you, Go for it....it's worth every penny!"

- Jenna Cook
[VENUS IN PINK]

 “Feeling good starts with getting Lauren’s program.”

“A job, outside projects, two kids, a household, a marriage….ALL things I wanted yet many times I felt more a slave to them than actually enjoying them like I had expected.

From the first video, I could tell this course was what I needed. With so much long-winded self-help out there, it is refreshing to receive concise, relevant information that I can access and use immediately. Now I can say no without feeling awkward or like I’m letting others down. I know how to take care of my own needs first.

Taking time for yourself is one of those easy sounding things to do, but it is really tricky. It is not instinctual. Lauren Gray’s program offers skills and techniques that every woman needs for the rest of her life to keep herself nourished. Feeling good starts with getting Lauren’s program.”

- Karen Josephson
[VENUS IN BLUE] Married over 35 years, 2 grown children, designer/artist

“By understanding the science behind my instinctive reactions, I’m making better conscious choices for myself and improving my relationship.”

“Even though I have done a lot of work in this area, I have benefited tremendously from this course! Lauren brings awareness and understanding into your life that creates life-changing shifts that will benefit all of your relationships. Her style satisfies both the logical person, with all of her scientific explanations, as well as the intuitive person. She explains biologically why we react in certain ways. By understanding the science behind my instinctive reactions, I’ve been able to make better conscious choices for myself and improve my relationship with my husband. I would recommend this program to all women, including Health and Life Coaches so that they can better serve their clients by walking the talk.”

- Lia Venet
[VENUS IN BLUE] Married 21 years, Mother of 2, Wellness Coach for Women.

“If you value your relationships, health, and happiness, sign up for this program and don’t look back!”

“When I joined Lauren’s course, I knew it would be good. Lauren is genuine, super-insightful and funny. There was no way I wasn’t going to love it. I’ve been a fan of Lauren’s blogs for years. What I didn’t expect is quite how much I’d learn. I’ve really connected with the MarsVenus philosophies for a while, so I thought much of this would be a review. Boy - was I wrong! I did not expect to learn completely NEW stuff.

Lauren’s approach is so engaging and her angle is so refreshing - I had lightbulbs pinging off all over the shop! By using the new tools and communication strategies I’ve learned, my husband has even been planning romantic dates for us!

I’m not kidding when I say (3 years later) something from this course pops into my head almost every day; this work continues to support me and help me see things more clearly. I feel so lucky to have that. 

If you value your relationships, health and happiness, sign up for this program and don’t look back. As the cheesy hair commercials say: you really are worth it! This program will pay you back ten-thousand-fold, I promise. If your man is like mine, he’ll love you even more for it too!”

- Nadia Ansari
[VENUS IN PINK] Newlywed, New Mom, Blood Sugar Balancing Blogger & Wellness Warrior.

“Relationships weren’t made to be hard. We just need the tools to make it easier and full of love.”

“My biggest hesitation before enrolling in How to Get More Me-Time was the price. But it was super worth it! :)

I realized that relationships weren’t made to be hard. We are the ones who make it harder. We just need to have the tools to make it easier and full of love.

Before, I thought Me-Time was a selfish thing. I thought that to have a great relationship, I had to put all of myself in it to make it work. I had to be this giving woman who was available 24/7 for their loved ones. 

Now, I feel more relaxed and I understand relationships so much more. I realized that I don't need to do everything. I can dedicate more time to myself and it feels great! I know how to ask my partner for help, and how to give him the tools to be more romantic in his own way.

If you are thinking of signing up: Do it! It’s an awesome program! It teaches you everything you were never taught about relationships. You will learn how to be more relaxed and in tune with yourself, and you will finally understand your man and how he demonstrates his love. You can stop the drama, and learn the tools to make it the relationship of your dreams.”

- Marisela M. V.
Student of nutrition, Mexican, and Painter

“I feel connected to this big vat of warm love.”

“I was concerned this might have been an impulsive buy - I mean I knew I’d take it eventually but maybe not NOW. I’m so glad I took this step!

I’ve noticed some positive shifts right away: a more relaxed nervous system, feeling connected to this big vat of warm love, a sense that I’m choosing my life by choosing my actions.

Before the course I thought "I'm all alone and have to do everything and my husband doesn't get it." Now I think "I have loving support all around me waiting for me to invite it into my heart. And my husband is happy to make me happy."

The whole of Lauren's presentation was what I liked most. The wrapping (bright colours, bright music, bright clothes), the gift (the succinct content, real life personal examples, an answer vault to elaborate, the worksheets to solidify action... and not just any action, but action that made sense!), and the manner of giving (Lauren's personality and jokes).

The pace of this program is HIGHLY accessible. I can easily imagine it being done if I had two kids and a full time job. 100% USER FRIENDLY. 

My advice for anyone considering joining this program: It’s okay to be uncertain, there is real work to be done here but just take baby steps & know that you are brave for showing up!”

- Isabella