THE BLOG
You’re in love with your best friend. Of course, you are, she’s amazing!
You talk all the time, you have so much fun together, and now, you want to take it to the next level.
Problem is, how do you tell her? Do you risk everything and tell her? What if she already has a boyfriend or...
Stress and depression can affect a man’s ability to be in a loving and healthy relationship.
There are times when he is just too stressed out to give himself wholly to anyone and he pulls away. Completely.
Although it can be painful, it’s important for a woman to understand this and...
Want a successful relationship? I’ll let you in on a secret.
Successful doesn’t mean “perfect.” Perfect doesn’t exist. It’s how you react to the imperfections that decide what kind of relationship you have.
These “mistake” moments are opportunities...
Is he acting hot and cold? Making you think “He loves me!” and the next minute thinking “Does he even care at all?!”
Some things in life are complicated — like untangling the chain of a necklace (why is this so hard?!) — but this, thankfully, can be resolved...
It’s natural to have insecurities be triggered when you’re in a relationship.
The problem is when you go to express those insecurities to your man in order to get reassurance and boost your confidence, it goes sideways.
Rather than give you what you want, he often pulls away even...
You’re ready to take the next step in your relationship, whether that’s saying I love you, getting engaged, moving in together, being exclusive, setting the date…But he just won’t commit!
He’s dragging his feet and this, my friend, calls for an intervention.
We need...
You took the next step in intimacy and commitment and now he’s disappeared, cooled off, or acting totally weird!
Why do men run away right when it gets good? And can you trust him after this?
Great questions. The good news is: I have answers and a path to peace of mind.
In this post,...
Are you already starting to have issues even though you “should be” in the honeymoon phase?
It’s easy to doubt whether you’re with the right person at this point. After all, isn’t the beginning supposed to be the most romantic, easy, fun time?
Actually, for a lot of...
He’s perfect in every way! Except he’s totally unavailable. He’s busy. He’s inconsistent. He won’t commit.
This sucks. But I’ve got good news!
There is a way to create a loving relationship with this guy and I’m going to show you how.
I’ve been in...
When a man pulls away in a relationship (what I call “cave time”), the woman who loves him can start to feel insecure in their relationship.
That insecurity can have a domino effect and push him even further away, sometimes to the point of ending the relationship.
So, how do you avoid...
There’s the old joke about married couples not having much sex with each other. Well, that joke came from reality, so don’t beat yourself up over having low libido with your wife or partner. It’s normal!
However, just because it’s “normal” doesn’t mean...
Breaking up is hard. It’s even harder when you don’t see it coming.
Love isn’t easy. There are always ups and downs. So how do you know when your relationship is actually in trouble? That’s what I’ll show you today.
I call these warning signs the Four Rs, and they...
The thought of never having to hear another complaint sounds like heaven, right?
But complaints are a part of life. To not complain is to hide a part of our authentic self.
Sharing complaints is actually not the real problem; it’s how you’re sharing your complaints that creates a...
How to get closure after a breakup was not the first question I had after my heart was broken but it was the most important.
The first time I experienced a breakup, I cried every night through the night for 6 months asking “Why, why, why?” For perspective: we had only dated 5 months.
...He used to talk to you about everything. Now, if you’re lucky, he grunts.
The good news? You can absolutely improve your communication (and relationship) with your loved one.
In the following video and post, I’ll reveal what I call the 5Cs — the things a woman unknowingly...
In a relationship, is there anything more gut-wrenching (or confusing!) than the phrases “Leave me alone” or “I need space”?
UGH. What are you supposed to do with that?!
What does it mean? What should you do?
The stakes are high. In this post and video, I’m going to...
When it comes to “communication,” I’m sure you’ve heard you can’t have a healthy relationship without it.
But what if the communication in your relationship isn’t all that great? What if:
- He gives you one-word answers?
- You don’t share stuff with each...
People that succeed in relationships do two things very well:
- They communicate effectively when they’re happy.
- They communicate effectively when they’re upset.
And you’re probably wondering: “How do my partner and I communicate effectively when one of us is upset?”...
